About Su

I believe therapy should be a place where what you have carried starts to make sense -- not because it is simple, but because it is finally being met with steadiness, care, and clinical depth.

I am a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Washington, DC. My work is trauma-informed, grief-centered, relational, and culturally responsive. I am certified in EMDR and have trained through Level 3 in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, which allows me to integrate structured, evidence-based approaches while still tailoring the work to each client's pace and needs.

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My Approach

I balance warmth with structure. Sessions are collaborative and active, but never rushed. We pay attention to emotion, body responses, relationship patterns, protective strategies, and the parts of you that may have learned to survive by staying guarded, capable, or in control.

For trauma and grief work, I prioritize stabilization, safety, and trust before deeper processing. For couples, I track interaction cycles in real time and help partners practice repair, emotional responsiveness, and clearer communication.

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What Shapes the Work

Structured Trauma Work

Trauma treatment is paced carefully, beginning with stabilization and emotional safety before deeper processing.

Thoughtful EMDR Integration

EMDR is used with clinical judgment, readiness, and flexibility -- not as a rigid one-size-fits-all protocol.

Parts-Work for Internal Clarity

Parts-informed work helps reduce self-criticism, soften internal conflict, and build more compassionate internal leadership.

Couples Repair from Early On

Couples sessions focus on the cycle between partners, not on assigning blame.

Grounded Care for Service Roles

Veterans, first responders, and people in service roles are welcomed with respect for operational stress, reintegration, and moral complexity.

Fit for Complex Professional Lives

Therapy can hold complexity -- the visible responsibilities, private grief, cultural context, and internal pressure that often coexist.